R A I S A S H A: 2014

Hi !

August, 6th 2014

Sebelumnya, Minal Aidzin Walfaidzin, mohon maaf lahir dan batin temen-temen :)

Its been a while since my last post (perasaan ini sering banget ku bilang deh), and i have a bad news. Harddisk eksternalku rusak, padahal foto-fotoku disitu semuaaa T-T Jadi mau lanjutin post-an ku yang kemarin juga gimana. Nunggu harddisku bener dulu deh. Semoga cepet dan data nya bisa diselamatin. Amin. Soalnya i feel wrong kalau nulis loncat-loncat tuh hehe

So whats new?

Apa ya, my life doesn't change much lately but everything is good, Alhamdulillah. Sebenernya tertarik nulis karena lagi ada yang dipikirin. Mau aku share ya, would be awesome if you share me yours :D

Belakangan ini agak terganggu dengan pemikiran orang-orang terhadap putus atau jadiannya orang lain, dimana kerasa banget kalau mereka merasa berhak menjudge atau giving their comment about that. Misalnya nih, ketika ada orang yang deket dan gak jadian-jadian terus mereka berspekulasi tentang alasannya. "ah pasti cuma di php-in" atau ada yang baru jadian "matre ah", atau ada dua orang yang putus "cowoknya sih gatel" atau ketika ada yang move on duluan "jahat banget sih dia", well..beberapa bahkan sampe ngambek gara-gara itu dan ngerasa berhak mendapat penjelasan dari yang bersangkutan.

For God sake, seriously people?

Memang ya, bergunjing atau bergosip itu udah kaya fitrahnya cewek. Ketemu temen cewek abis kangen-kangenan ya pasti gosip. But talking about it in public, whether its on the large group or in social media are completely different things.

Girls, berteman saja ngga membuat kita jadi berhak ngomongin atau menjudge seseorang. Teman yang baik menurutku tahu kapan dia bertanya secara baik-baik, kapan tidak bertanya dan kapan untuk not saying anything to anyone ever.

Unless you're cabe-cabean and your friend is cabe-cabean who's dating another cabe-cabean yang bisa putus gara-gara telat bales bbm doang, baru deh kalian boleh menjudge atau ngomongin orang kaya gitu. Karena di umur dua puluh sekian sekian, be with or be without someone is something that we do with our own consideration. Gak mungkin rasanya putus atau jadian tanpa dipikirin dulu, tanpa alasan, tanpa banyak pertimbangan.

Alasan ini ada yang bisa (dan mau) mereka share, ada juga yang ngga. Its purely their right. Dan kita, sebagai outsider seharusnya bisa menghargai itu. Menurutku gak ada yang putus dan purely happy inside out, bahkan putus karena kekerasan aja (which is a good choice) pasti sedikitnya menyisakan sakit, sedih. Begitupun yang baru jadian, belum tentu kalau mereka ga sedih lagi kan? Gak ada juga yang move on, be happy tanpa proses penyembuhan diri. Mengutip kata-kata nya Falla Adinda "Yang kalian liat itu seneng-seneng nya dia, Malam-malam penuh tangisnya dia simpan sendiri".

My point is, Lets be wise by leave it to the both of them. Janganlah menjudge seseorang jahat karena terlihat bahagia duluan, menganggap lemah seseorang karena sedih berkelanjutan, mengecap jelek orang yang gonta-ganti pacar, menyalahkan sesorang karena memutuskan hubungan, mempertanyakan kenapa mereka gak putus-putus atau kenapa gak jadian-jadian (or even married!). They have their reason, and we have our own mouth to shut up. Its never out business anyway. Kitapun sebenernya gak mau kan digituin orang?

Orang mau jadi hakim aja sekolahnya susah ya. Kita orang awam ini kok kadang suka sok-sokan banget pengen jadi hakim sosial. :P

Udah ah, Peace.

Raisha :*

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, by Raisha Nurul Ichsanti

Festival

Being Mojang Kota Sukabumi 2013

Jadi postingan ini udah masuk draft dari 2 tahun yang lalu, sebelum kemudian datanya hilang semua. Termasuk foto-foto kegiatan selanjutnya which is Mojang Jajaka Jawa Barat.

Dari pada ngga di post yah..biar terlambat (banget!) asal selamat kan? :p

September, 13th 2013

Its been two years i keep the desire to join this before i finally registered my self for Mojang Jajaka Sukabumi. What makes me always stuck was..parents permission. They have they're own thought of course, but i know a lil. Since my father works in governmental department in Sukabumi...win or lose, they will talk about me. And my parents didn't want it to happen. Another reason was...he's afraid to see me lose.

So after a long journey, my father finally said yes. Yay !

But i know the very right thing to do. I keep it in secret. I told no one except some of the closest friend. I put my mother's name on registration foam, i simply just..keep in only within me.

After passing administrative selection, i need to do some quarantine for 4-5 days. But since we're in the middle of house moving and suddenly i was called to Jakarta for some administrative things, i didn't really into that quarantine. I missed a lot of class, but Alhamdulillah the committee allowed me to keep on joining that.

You can call me arrogant, but from the moment i join it.. i know im gonna win. I've been learning about Sukabumi ever since i ask my parent permission, i learn how to sing, how to play violin, im quite good in english, i join some of local community, i have a straight vision and mission..in short. I was fully prepared.

On final days, we had to delivered a speech talking about one of Sukabumi potential uniqueness and talking about why they have to choose us. I forgot the complete text. But i did my research about Wayang Sukuraga until i went to the 'Dalang', bapak Fendi, the night before. Nothing like what others did (I said this because i know, some of them even mistaken the sources !).

On my speech i told them about my activities which is a lot during my free day. And i remember the very last line i said..

"Im a proud fresh graduate from STAN. Im standing here to prove you that STAN isn't belong to Gayus. STAN have me, i'm here to show you everything's wrong that they told about my college in media"

Perhaps it sound so..movie-like? But i dont care, its the very huge mission i was carried when i join it. Like, thats the very least thing i could do to spread good thing about my college.

And i hear them clapping..even the judges smile and salute me. I know i was already won it. No matter with or without the sash.

Here's is the picture taken that day.